the ways we are different....
Dec. 3rd, 2008 09:03 amConversation last night turned to the senses, and what we considered our strongest/most dominant sense, the one that sends information faster, stronger, often more annoyingly than the others. For K, it was sound -- she admits that she recognizes people by their voice, not their faces. D. didn't fess up, but I suspect it's sight. For me -- smell, to the point that I will cross the street to avoid a Lush store because it's like being assaulted every time the door opens (too much, too strong).
How about all y'all? Examples and discussions welcome in comments.
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How about all y'all? Examples and discussions welcome in comments.
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Date: 2008-12-03 02:19 pm (UTC)On a more ordinary basis, I am almost utterly visual.
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Date: 2008-12-03 02:26 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 02:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 02:40 pm (UTC)Randomly, do you find that your sense of smell ratchets up at certain times of the month? Mine does, and I'm always sorely tempted to drive in rush hour traffic on those days rather than subject myself to nausea-inducing rides on the train.
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Date: 2008-12-03 02:49 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 02:53 pm (UTC)(I'm a very visual person, far more so than aural, which is why I turn to books before television, and IM/email over telephone.)
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Date: 2008-12-03 03:02 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 03:51 pm (UTC)drives the hubby insane when i keep asking if "can't you HEAR THAT?%*(&*&@!!!" or "omg i can smell "X".. can't you smell that?" :D
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Date: 2008-12-03 04:05 pm (UTC)Maybe I'm just insensate. :)
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Date: 2008-12-03 04:08 pm (UTC)Recognize voices before faces. The sound of geese flying overhead fills me with an aching joy.
But they are linked. I no idea what band or song names are, because I never saw the names while I was listening to them (radio generation). I have to hear and see to cement things in memory. Sound alone, sight alone doesn't do it.
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Date: 2008-12-03 07:14 pm (UTC)Ditto. Not just what they said, but the rhythm and cadence of their speech.
Sound is my dominant input. I have a very good visual memory for some things--book covers, for instance, or signs. But most visual details escape me--I don't notice what people are wearing and while I can describe the outside of someone's house (which goes under "how to find it") I'm lousy at describing how they furnished or decorated it inside.
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Date: 2008-12-03 04:08 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 04:11 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 04:24 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 05:32 pm (UTC)My primary sense is definitely sound. I guess since I work in the music industry that follows ... :) I was labeled an "auditory learner" when I was in school, if I read it in a book it didn't really stick until the topic was discussed in class. I still recognize people by their voices before their faces.
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Date: 2008-12-03 05:06 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 04:22 pm (UTC)Emotionally, sight is my strongest sense, despite myopia. My most visceral responses often come from what I see. It's why there's so much art in my home, why I've been carrying my camera with me more.
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Date: 2008-12-03 04:39 pm (UTC)I can't narrow it down. *laughs*
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Date: 2008-12-03 05:33 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 06:23 pm (UTC)That said, because of allergies (and asthma) avoiding certain things is key. Back when I lived in the City* I used to make trips from Fifth Avenue (by the Empire State Building) over to a software company in the Garment district to pick up software updates. Cutting through Macy's was always quickest (and preferred during the winter) route but I used to hold my breath through that one stretch of their perfume center lest I end up watery eyed and sniffly by the time I made it back outside.
* the City is, of course, NYC.
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Date: 2008-12-03 06:25 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-03 09:26 pm (UTC)But if you ask me their names? Yeah, that's just not happening.
The weird thing about that is, I don't *think* visually, if you know what I mean. I tend to think verbally, not in sound, but in words. I have a terrible time with visualization. If you tell me to to visualize a bird, I'm gonna see the word "bird" in my head.
I have no idea what all of this means. :D
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Date: 2008-12-04 12:28 am (UTC)I rely mostly on sound, and can identify my son by his cough. But touch is what I fall back on to be sure of something. It's why I pull away from people in crowds--information overload!
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Date: 2008-12-04 12:38 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-04 02:03 am (UTC)Synesthesia adds complications.
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Date: 2008-12-04 03:14 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-04 03:11 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-04 03:16 am (UTC)(interestingly, nobody has picked taste yet, I don't think. I suspect that's because we stopped trying to put everything into our mouths when we were about five, and yes I know I just gave someone a perfect line just waiting to be bent... consider it an early holiday present....)
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Date: 2008-12-04 04:52 am (UTC)Eventually, I chose sound, because I do seem to be more easily distracted or annoyed or responsive to sound. I used to have to move my digital alarm clock out of my room because it would wake me up with its ticking. (My brother swears I'm crazy on this one, but honest! The digital ones! They ticked! Somebody seems to have fixed this in the newer models, thank god.)
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Date: 2008-12-05 03:17 pm (UTC)Hearing would come a close second. Being subjected to noises I can't control, like a neighbor's late night party, or late night con party thumping in the room above, can trigger anxiety attacks. On the other hand, a walk in the forest at night is a delight.