Cat Pet Politics
Apr. 17th, 2026 04:34 pmBut it's more complicated than that.
It turns out it's not enough to be petted. Each cat has to be the ONLY ONE being petting.
Case in point: I sit on the couch, and Dora senses her moment. She literally bolts across the room, claws scrabbling on the wood floor, and leaps into my lap. When I touch her head, her eyes close in ecstasy and she purrs like a motorboat on steroids. Bliss unlocked! She is forever happy.
Then Dinah notices what's going on. She herself isn't getting petted, and this unfairness cannot stand. She oozes quietly onto the couch and sidles over until she's pressed against my side. While still scratching Dora's ears, I pet Dinah's nose, her favorite pet-erogenous zone, and she is likewise sent into bliss-topia. Both cats are getting everything they want!
But what's this? Dora's eyes pop open she's hit with the horrific realization that DINAH IS GETTING PETTED TOO! Dora stares and glares at Dinah's ecstasy, even though Dora's own petting has continued uninterrupted. Her resentment grows until she swats at Dinah with a hiss. This gets her immediately and unceremoniously dumped off my lap with an undignified thump. She storms away, angry at me because I'm not petting her anymore.
Dinah uses the opportunity to take Dora's place. The nose-petting continues. More bliss! Meanwhile, Dora has taken to pouting across the room, but in less than a minute, her endless, demon-fed desire overcomes the irrational pouting, and she stalks back to the couch. Dinah shoots her a "nyah nyah!" look. Dora, who is incapable of oozing or sidling, flops noisily down on the couch next to me and looks pointedly at me. Just to see what happens, I pet both cats again. Dora sighs heavily. She will put up with sharing if there's no other way.
And ... oh noes! Dinah has seen that Dora has successfully wheedled her way back into the petting zone, a zone that is Not For Sharing. After some stares and glares of her own, she harumphs to her feet and indignantly stalks away.
Dora is unsubtle but not stupid. This is HER chance! She plops herself into my lap again. All the skritches are once again hers! Ha!
Then realization crashes over Dinah. She walked away from the perfect petting relationship! Remorse over her foolishness takes over. She meekly returns to the couch and curls up next to me within easy petting distance. Once again, I'm petting both cats.
And then Dora sees that Dinah is also being petted again! This can't ...
Well, this kept up for a while.
After four or five rotations, I had enough and dumped both cats off lap and couch. When they tried to return, I shook the spray bottle, sending them scrambling away. Everybody loses.
It's funny, but also a stupidly tragic metaphor for modern politics. For certain people, it isn't enough to get what they want--the other side has to lose everything. They're willing to give up something good if it means the other side will have something bad.
Own them libs!
Periodic Sunday Book Summaries--#7
Apr. 12th, 2026 11:26 amSunday book summaries are my casual log of what I’ve been reading this week. These are not formal reviews. They’re more my reactions and musings as taken from my journal when I complete the reading, and at times will contain notes about how they influence my thoughts on what I’m writing.
Been a busy time so this one is three weeks’ worth of reading.
I got rather frustrated when looking up my library’s offerings of Len Deighton ebooks—which is to say, they were pretty minimal. So when I found a copy of Spy Hook in a Little Free Library, I grabbed it. Complex plotting, of course, conspiracy upon conspiracy…and then I discovered that it was book one of a trilogy. Did I like Spy Hook well enough to go seeking the rest of the series? Sadly, not really. There was a time when I would gobble up this genre, but…given that there’s some real-life versions unfolding with the Epstein Files and some Very Weird Connections that I’m reading about that…well, they’re rather interesting. And weird. Plus, I’ve read too much of Charlie Stross’s Laundry Files books that were a pastiche of Deighton’s style that…I just kept hearing Stross’s voice, not Deighton. Oh well.
One of my enjoyable, to-be-savored reads was Charles de Lint’s Someplace to Be Flying. Set in de Lint’s Newford world, it’s a fascinating look at how the world can change. I don’t find de Lint to be an author I want to binge read. I’m working my way through his books slowly, as the mood takes me—somewhat like I do with Ursula K. Le Guin. De Lint manages to create an interesting mix of Native American traditions and European fantastical work, and does it so very well. Not everyone can pull it off like he does.
Then there was Kurt Baumeister’s Twilight of the Gods. I have to admit, the beginning had me thinking that “yessss, this is better than Gaiman’s American Gods.” Then…I started not liking what he did with Loki. Perhaps my perspective is spoiled by reading fanfic but the rest of the book didn’t live up to the opening for me.
I continued my dive into 20th century women journalists by reading Martha Gellhorn’s Travels with Myself and Another. It’s a mildly concealed secret, so to speak, that the “Another” spoken of is Ernest Hemingway. Gellhorn is an…interesting read, with strong biases about what she expects in the way of services, cleanliness, and the like. Very strong opinions and…definitely a product of her era when it comes to other ethnicities.
Another de Lint, Dreams Underfoot, is a collection of the early Newford short stories. I do not remember reading them, which makes me wonder because I thought I had read more de Lint than I apparently have. Recommended. Lovely urban fantasy, a foundational work.
I finally finished Anthony Trollope’s The Way We Live Now, in paper. Trollope’s books tend to be among the sort that I prefer to read in paper and take my time with. They’re a dense read and this one, involving a woman hack writer and her marriage schemes involving her son and daughter in hopes that they will find wealthy mates. But there are other marriage schemes afoot, including that of the daughter of a wealthy grifter who ends up in a bad way when his malfeasance is discovered. Fortunately, the daughter recovers and the grifter is the only one who really comes to a bad end. Those who scorn historical romance might…want to take a look back at some of the authors now considered to be classics, because Trollope for one definitely wrote himself some rather twisty marriage scheme plots, all involving British aristocracy.
I wanted to reread some of Cordwainer Smith’s work, but…could not find my copy of Norstrilia, alas. I have to wonder where it went walkabout to because I had planned to write a piece about Le Guin and Smith, and I suspect I pulled it to reread for that purpose. Oh well. I reread one of his short story collections, The Instrumentality of Mankind. For the most part, it holds up very well, with minor visitations from the Suck Fairy.
Then there’s the horse book fix. I reread Blister Jones by John Taintor Foote, a collection of short stories featuring the headline character, a racehorse trainer back in the wild days of the early twentieth century, when doping a racehorse was the norm except for certain stakes-level competition. This book is—well—a product of its era, and probably among the early sources for a bunch of later tropes featuring racehorses. It’s also very heavy on dialect, stereotypes about Black racetrack workers, and hoo the times where the n-word shows up in multiple forms. But the champion racehorses are outstanding, the problematic horses—including the titular character in the last story, the Big Train—end up fitting into what are later cliches, and, well—if you want a somewhat accurate account of the lower levels of the early twentieth century horse racing world, this is it.
While I’m not much of a mystery reader these days with a handful of exceptions, I enjoyed a reread of Dorothy L. Sayers’s Gaudy Night. It’s been long enough since I read it that I didn’t remember the details, and while it started slow in comparison to current-day mysteries, by the halfway point the story was rocketing along. I’m not that big on Lord Peter Wimsey but I do like Harriet Vane.
And sadly, finally, I have a DNF. I really, really wanted to like Danica Nava’s The Truth According to Ember. I liked most of the characterizations, I really appreciated the depiction of a successful Down Syndrome Native American woman, I really really liked the use of Native American characters, but…oh dear. The plot in that particular setting. The further I read, the less believable it became to me, just because I’ve had enough exposure to corporate world to know that a lot of it doesn’t ring true. Plus the lead character, Ember, just started grating on me, unfortunately. But it was mostly the plot. Too much of it read like a formulaic “must hit plot points by this page” story and it really felt forced to me. Poor editing? Very possibly. I have another one of Nava’s books on hold and have hopes for that one, because I really like Nava’s writing and setting.
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The case of the missing notifications
Apr. 11th, 2026 11:58 pmI keep forgetting to post about this: we've been troubleshooting the "missing notifications" problem for the past few days. (Well, I say "we", really I mean Mark and Robby; I'm just the amanuensis.) It's been one of those annoying loops of "find a logical explanation for what could be causing the problem, fix that thing, observe that the problem gets better for some people but doesn't go away completely, go back to step one and start again", sigh.
Mark is hauling out the heavy debugging ordinance to try to find the root cause. Once he's done building all the extra logging tools he needs, he'll comment to this entry. After he does, if you find a comment that should have gone to your inbox and sent an email notification but didn't, leave him a link to the comment that should have sent the notification, as long as the comment itself was made after Mark says he's collecting them. (I'd wait and post this after he gets the debug code in but I need to go to sleep and he's not sure how long it will take!)
We're sorry about the hassle! Irregular/sporadic issues like this are really hard to troubleshoot because it's impossible to know if they're fixed or if they're just not happening while you're looking. With luck, this will give us enough information to figure out the root cause for real this time.
A Promise of a Proposal
Apr. 10th, 2026 04:49 pmBut ... how does that discussion not count as peace talks? Iran is talking about conditions for peace.
This kind of thing happens all the time. The media reports, "Politician A To Announce Bid For Presidency." Isn't releasing that statement already an announcement to run? A long-standing theme in advice columns is a woman who is upset because her boyfriend hasn't proposed, even though he's said he will do so soon. Isn't the promise to propose already a proposal?
This phenomenon has always puzzled me.









