Overnights, 2025
Jan. 5th, 2026 09:40 pm2025 got my travel ramping back up (finally), even though I only went to two conventions and one of them (Worldcon) was literally in my city (between my apartment and my usual airport, though technically there's also an airport with international service between my apartment and downtown -- LKE). Two overnights from delayed flights; both would have stuck me at DTW (Romulus, MI) except that for the second one I was able to rebook on the next morning's IAD-SEA nonstop instead.
The big trip was Kraków and environs, with a bonus pair of overnights in Calgary because business class YYC-KRK was literally half the price of SEA-KRK or YVR-KRK. Having NEXUS made a Canada stopover easy; though I kinda miss the old iris scan kiosks, the new facial recognition ones are a lot faster.
Cambridge, MA*
Seattle, WA*
Romulus, MI
Arlington, VA*
Calgary, AB, CA*
KL678 YYC-AMS
Kraków, PL*
Jaworze, PL
Balice, PL
Sneads Ferry, NC
Minneapolis, MN
Harrisonburg, VA
Sterling, VA
Port Townsend, WA
SeaTac, WA
Tysons, VA
Airports (connection-only*, new to me@): BOS, SEA, DTW (should have only been a connection, sigh), DCA, MSP, YYC@, AMS*, KRK@, ATL*, ILM@, IAD.
Marker coming into his own
Jan. 4th, 2026 06:17 pm
2025--most precisely, the fall of 2025--is when Marker really started coming together under saddle. In part this was due to me doing a lot of arena work on him, including basic schooling, focusing on getting his canter leads right but also doing a lot of lateral work such as two-tracking, shoulder-in, haunches-in, and so on. We also did a lot of pattern work and started doing the really fussy stuff involving sidepassing and backing through ground pole patterns. The fussy work didn't come along as well--that's a goal for 2026--but canter leads and lateral work showed progress.
Along with saddle work came a distinct improvement in ground manners. While old Mocha definitely played a role in ground manners--the old girl had very strong opinions about manners and was not afraid to tell Marker about an infringement of the Mocha Rules--after her death it somewhat seemed like he realized that he was the Only Horse and that he needed to step up to the plate, behaviorally. Of course, part of it is that he is very much a human-oriented horse and isn't very interested in sharing His People. He's become quite polite about his grain. Lately, when I bring him in from the field, if no one else is doing anything in the barnyard, I can toss the rope over his withers and tell him to "go to the rail." He stops at the edge of the mats (despite seeing the grain bucket right there--such a temptation!) to wait for a cookie, then turns his head away until I say "All yours now" and step back from the bucket.
That turning away of his head is definitely one of his coping mechanisms when there is something that is just so tempting but he can't touch it. Or play with it. He's done it when I've gotten after him for playing with the grooming caddy.
But it's also clear that he is a horse with Big Emotions, and while he's made significant strides in emotional self-regulation, he still has things to work out when it comes to his emotional expressions, especially in a herd setting. However, he's a horse who understands a lot of human words, or at least human vocal tones. "Good boy" has a small positive response from him, and "bad boy!" elicits a droopy, sorrowful expression. I haven't had to use it much lately. We'll see what happens in springtime, though.
These days, he's 95% at giving me the correct canter lead when I ask for it, and I can usually figure out reasons for why he doesn't always get that correct lead (usually due to soreness or I didn't set him up right). There's very little of the switching leads when he gets tired. Part of that is due to conditioning. Some horses need a lot of conditioning time to get a nice smooth canter, or to hold a particular lead. Gaited horses like Marker also have some different wiring as to whether they can pick up a proper canter from whatever their intermediate gait is, whether that's singlefoot, running walk, or fox trot like Marker does. Time and conditioning work wonders in that situation--something I learned from Mocha, who took a year from purchase time to getting a canter in the arena that didn't scare the other riders (or me! She went all over the place with a rider). But in Mocha's case, she'd been on a long layoff due to a tongue injury, and once we went through the initial conditioning phase her canter was always pretty good--I learned the value of taking time for conditioning from her.
Marker now has a nice, relaxed, rocking horse canter on his left lead. It's very smooth, slow, and on a slack rein--basically, the weight of a latigo leather rein on a loose ring snaffle. We're getting there on the right lead--he strained his left hind this fall, which is the driver of a good right lead canter. Right lead has somewhat been a challenge at times because that's the one where he's most likely to swap leads when he starts feeling tired or sore. So...since we're in the field for the winter, it's lots of straight line canter work for a distance. And it's coming along--I can now sit that canter instead of needing to go into a half-seat so he can move freely underneath me. It's no longer as rushed as it was. We have moments where it feels like the left lead, and those are happening more often.
I spend winters riding and schooling in the field. It's a throwback to my youth, where I had no access or means of transport to an indoor arena, so I rode a lot in a swampy field. One advantage of field riding is that if the field is big enough, you can do that straight line work to build strength. And Marker, unlike Mocha, has no problems negotiating diagonals across the field due to footing. We do a lot of fox trot work to improve his ability to gait on rough footing. Boy also likes his fox trot--he will happily zone out while fox trotting along, moving nice and relaxed in light collection.
Winter goals right now are to make that right lead as smooth and relaxed as the left lead. Which just takes time and practice. Then there's the fox trot on rough footing. More than that has to wait until we can get into the arena--more pattern work, and work over ground poles that includes learning to relax when sidepassing and turning over a pole corner. I also have to figure out his sweet spot--his turning radius differs from Mocha's, because she could turn a lot faster and smoother on her haunches than he can. Other things he needs to work on include being able to work calmly around a lot of other horses. That has to wait until summer and local horse events. I'm doing some of it now by riding him in and around the herd. And being calm when there's a lot of chaos going on around him. He's pretty good at it around the barn, but he needs to develop that skill elsewhere. It's just a matter of time and exposure.
Another winter goal is working on reducing the strength of my cues. Which--he's pretty responsive to turning from a weighted seat bone, even if he isn't rounding up as much as I would like when working in serpentines. That's a mutual goal because I have to maintain the strength to cue softly. He also is responsive to me turning my head along with a weighted outside seatbone. Could I take him bridleless? Possibly--more likely than I ever could do with Mocha. But we have some work to get there. In the meantime, we're working on softer, softer cueing. Which, again, falls back on me as well.
One biggie for me is working on getting my legs back and not leaning forward as much as I can do when going into canter. I'm also planning to spend time working on bareback riding--I'd like to be able to canter Marker in the arena while riding bareback. That's important for my core strength and balance. I'd like to find a reasonably priced dressage saddle that can fit the boy's round barrel because that will help me as well. But until then, working bareback will be a big help on the core strength and balance front (I also do weight work off of the horse, too).
Overall, he's definitely not a show horse type, at least from what he's shown me so far. But taking him to local shows also helps him acquire that emotional self-regulation he needs to develop in strange settings (the standout from his first show last summer involved him screaming in my ear--literally, nose right there--as well as deciding partway through the under saddle class that he was done and pitching a temper tantrum because he wanted to go out of the gate on the other side of the arena and GET AWAY FROM ALL THIS STUFF NOW). He's also a pretty darn nice and steady road riding mount, with a few exceptions (YAKS!!! Bicycles! EBIKES!!!). Which--I also want to work on.
All in all, he's coming along nicely and is a good safe mount for a skilled senior rider. When I look back at my Mocha training notes, I notice that not only is he coming along faster, it's with much fewer problems. Old mare had her opinions. Sometimes they didn't match mine as a trainer--and she had no qualms about bucking in her young years. He's less likely to argue with me, and wants to please. Some of this is the difference between a mare and a gelding--but another is the difference in temperaments. I've ridden geldings with strong opinions, too.
So yeah. The boy and I are going nicely into 2026. We'll see what it brings.
Viral Update
Jan. 4th, 2026 10:51 amI now understood a tiny bit some people's obsession with how many views they get on their social media. Checking the numbers became a day-long activity. Any time I finished something like clear the driveway or make dinner, I'd check the numbers first thing. They were always up.
Would it hit a million?
The post climbed and climbed. Eight hundred thousand. Nine hundred. In the mid-nine hundreds around midnight, it stalled. Well, shoot. It's still pretty awesome that it got that much! Darwin and I went to bed.
In the morning, I checked it again. It had shot upward, and reached a million views. Wow!
And then it was 1.1 million. 1.2 million. 1.3 million. It kept climbing. Geez, how far was this silly thing going to go?
Around 1.4 million, it finally sputtered and slowed. As of this writing, it's at 1,443,292 views about two days after the original posting.
I spent a large part of the last two days putting up more posts, both political and non-, to see what happened. All my newer posts got more than double their usual views, and some got triple, so they were in the low thousands. One shot up into the five digits.
I've only gotten two new friend requests. I've gotten only two pieces of hate mail, calling me a liberal f***ot. I reported, deleted, and blocked. I also got a handful of people who attacked me in their comments. I deleted a few and let others stand. As they say, clicks are clicks and views are views! Interestingly, these incidents didn't upset or anger me as they have in the past. I was more amused. I struck a nerve somewhere, and provoked a reaction from these people. Dance, puppets! Dance! :)
Now, though, I've climbed on the social media treadmill. I'm still getting higher views than before, and I don't want to lose that audience. But to keep an audience, you have to create content. Dance, puppet, dance.
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Jan. 1st, 2026 03:41 pmnow I can fill it back up with useful crap.
going to do some cataloging today, after my start, I did nothing, but, its a slow process, and I do love cataloging, I am relearning Readerware, and its soothing to me. I need to get a shelf or two done so I can stack some funko pops on top of the books.
I finally remembered how to delete the cover icons ... all that stuff just takes up valuable data space in my reality.
I've Gone Viral!
Jan. 1st, 2026 02:11 pmПривет! LiveJournal imports may be slow
Dec. 31st, 2025 08:24 pmПривет and welcome to our new Russian friends from LiveJournal! We are happy to offer you a new home. We will not require identification for you to post or comment. We also do not cooperate with Russian government requests for any information about your account unless they go through a United States court first. (And it hasn't happened in 16 years!)
Importing your journal from ЖЖ may be slow. There are a lot of you, with many posts and comments, and we have to limit how fast we download your information from ЖЖ so they don't block us. Please be patient! We have been watching and fixing errors, and we will go back to doing that after the holiday is over.
I am very sorry that we can't translate the site into Russian or offer support in Russian. We are a much, much smaller company than LiveJournal is, and my high school Russian classes were a very long time ago :) But at least we aren't owned by Sberbank!
С Новым Годом, and welcome home!
EDIT: Большое спасибо всем за помощь друг другу в комментариях! Я ценю каждого, кто предоставляет нашим новым соседям информацию, понятную им без необходимости искать её в Google. :) И спасибо вам за терпение к моему русскому переводу с помощью Google Translate! Прошло уже много-много лет со школьных времен!
Thank you also to everyone who's been giving our new neighbors a warm welcome. I love you all ❤️
2025 was...a year
Dec. 31st, 2025 12:23 pm
There are years that are great years, years that are bad years, and years that just...are years.
2025 was one of those. I spent a lot of time with the spouse working on a house to sell, and while it sold, eventually, the labor on the place ended up sucking out a lot of time and money. It slowed down my writing work and, as a result, I didn't publish anything new this year, besides an extensive revision of Klone's Stronghold into Klone's Stronghold: Reeni, setting it up for potential sequels--that is, if anyone bothers to read or buy the damned books. There may be more of the same for 2026, but this time around I don't anticipate it being quite as tiring or problematic.
In any case, part of the writing problem was that I had challenges getting into the world of Goddess's Vision. That's remedied now with Vision of Alliance on track for a late February/early March release, and starting preliminary work on Vision of Chaos. I plan to have all three books of this series finished and released in 2026. Additionally, I have other things going on for once, tied to my teaching history working with remedial writers and translating it into suggestions for writers looking to find ways to self-edit without resorting to software crammed full of generative AI.
I've also seen one of my ongoing projects with the Science Fiction and Fantasy Writers Association start to take off, thanks to a visionary and energetic new Communications Director at SFWA. The Heritage Author Republication Project is small but mighty, and 2026 will be dedicated to getting it even more developed and on a firmer foundation. Additionally, I am now one of the co-chairs of SFWA's Independent Author Committee, and hope to see the Committee's projects really take off and thrive.
The other thing is that I turned sixty-eight this year. 2026 will be the year I turn the age that my mother died. That shouldn't be a weight on my thoughts but nonetheless it is. All the same, I'm still active, going out to the forest to cut firewood with my husband and spending time riding and training Marker.
I'm down to one horse again. I realized that this was Mocha's last year in February. She had developed a small abscess in her right fore in December of 2024, and while it resolved quickly, she never stopped limping. That winter was not very severe, but it was also hard on the old lady. She never really recovered from winter, despite my efforts to keep her warm and blanketed (she hated stalls in her last years). Her farrier had to kneel to put her hooves on his thigh when he trimmed her. The ranch owner saw her tripping and falling in the field for no obvious reason. Bone spurs kept popping out on that right knee in particular, and the vet just shook his head and said "no more winters" when he saw her for spring vaccinations. We made tentative plans for euthanasia in the fall, giving her one last good summer which--it was pretty good. She moved to her last field in June and was happiest with deer for companions, though she was also happy when Marker spent several weeks with her in July.
But her story came to an end on Labor Day, when I went to see her on my way to ride Marker, and discovered that she could barely walk. Several days before, she had resumed cantering, head high and proud--she was a horse who loved to run, and losing that ability was hard on her mentally. I could see it. Then the canter became a trot to my call, and finally a walk, and then that last day when it was all she could do to hobble to me for her last dose of painkiller. Evidence pointed to a possible neurological event, at least that's what I think. Thankfully I had the full support of Vixen, Jeffrey, and Destiny Wecks as well as my husband in making the decision to put her down and bury her that night. Didn't make it any easier, especially when Marker started screaming as the empty trailer came back from where she was buried.
Marker made huge gains this year under saddle and in hand. He carried Miss Rodeo Oregon 2025 as one of the horses in her 50 horse challenge, and went to his first horse show, where I learned that he could graze and scream at the same time. We worked hard on his canter--even though he's a trotty gaited horse, he still needed a summer of focused training to not only work toward a smooth, rocking-horse canter but to pick up the proper inside lead on cue. But he also stepped up to the plate after Mocha's death, becoming much more polite in ground handling and working more at liberty. While having a bit of spunk, he's pretty much a good safe saddle horse for an elder rider. Which is what I need these days, along with that lovely little fox trot of his. He's no Mocha but he's definitely a good Marker. Not sure what we will do in 2026 but I have some notions in mind. He comes to call 99% of the time and is very human-oriented. A classic Foxtrotter characteristic, whether he's purebred or not.
So that was 2025. Not gonna talk about political stuff because...these days I am focused on what I can do in my communities and that keeps me plenty busy. I'm hoping to do more writing and be more visible in 2026. We'll see what the year brings.
#78 Archangel's Eternity by Nalini Singh
Dec. 30th, 2025 08:40 pmWhat a great ending to this series. The book starts with Elena being a thousand years old and thinking about all the changes to her life and to everyone around her. Everyone that has shown up during the series gets mentioned. Some angels go to Sleep and a one awakens. The book is still too far out from publication to really get into the details that might spoil any surprises for fans and I won’t be the one to do it. But every chapter was great to read and loose ends were tied off nicely. There is always room for short stories set in this universe but if there wasn’t any more the fans really get all their questions answered.
Digital review copy provided by the publisher through Edelweiss




